Recognizing the Signs of Elder Abuse.

Recognizing the Signs of Elder Abuse. 

 - Max Gottlieb is the content manager for Senior Planning.

 

It is estimated that 2.1 million cases of elder abuse are reported each year. While that number is staggering, for every one case reported, as many as thirteen elder abuse cases go unreported. The horror stories of abuse are one reason many people hold a poor opinion of care homes and assisted living facilities. Care facilities, however, are not the only place elder abuse occurs and it is sadly far more common than you think.

 

What Constitutes Elder Abuse?

 

Elder abuse does not have to be physical. It can be emotional, financial, or as simple as neglecting a person who cannot take care of themselves. Basically, any time a senior is mistreated can be considered elder abuse.

 

At first, signs of abuse may appear to be symptoms of dementia, Alzheimer’s, or simply aging. Signs like weight loss, bruises, disorientation, and even sprains or broken bones can often by explained away by pointing to age or memory loss. If a senior is claiming they are being abused, however, they should not be ignored.

 

Many studies have concluded that abuse comes from a loved one far more often than paid professionals. If you notice anything that feels unusual coming from a neighbor or a loved one, like bruises or uncalled for timidity, it is important to notify Adult Protective Services. Even though the senior does not have to take your help and Adult Protective Services cannot do anything against a person’s will, the more information Adult Protective Services has on an individual case, the easier it is to stop the abuse from happening once a senior does decide to come forward. In a case where a senior is unable to make decisions for themselves, Adult Protective Services has the authority to intervene.      

 

Beyond physical abuse, many people between the ages of 70-89 get taken advantage of financially as well. In terms of actual dollars stolen, financial professionals and fiduciary agents make up the largest group of financial abuse perpetrators. If you are the family member of someone you believe is being taken advantage of, don’t hesitate to report it. An elder law attorney is a great resource to help out in this type of situation.

 

Types of Elder Abuse:

 

Physical Abuse: This type of abuse is the easiest to catch because it has visible symptoms. Physical abuse can include hitting, pushing, burning, restraining, cutting, or any other type of physical assault.

Sexual Abuse or abusive Sexual Contact: With any age group, this means sexual contact that is against someone’s will. For seniors specifically, sexual abuse is any instance in which the elderly person is unable to understand what is going on, cannot communicate, or is physically overpowered. This can include rape, inappropriate touching, sexualized handling or groping (either through the clothes or beneath them), or anything else that makes a person feel violated.

Psychological or Emotional Abuse: This type of abuse is when a caregiver or loved one intentionally inflicts psychological trauma through threats or coercion. Sometimes people will embarrass the senior, isolate them, or damage property to control them. If a senior behaves a certain way because they are afraid of the consequences, then they are being emotionally abused.


Neglect:
This is pretty straightforward. This is when the person responsible for the senior’s wellbeing intentionally fails to provide the basic means of survival. This includes everything from literally leaving a senior alone to not providing adequate clothing, shelter, nutrition, correct medication, or access to healthcare.

 

Abandonment: This is when an elderly person who cannot care for him or herself is abandoned.

 

Financial Abuse or Exploitation: Improper uses of a senior’s funds, check forgery, coercion, or plain theft all constitute financial abuse. While often perpetrated by financial professionals, family members who have guardianship and power of attorney can also do it.

 

If you are at all worried and have a loved one in a place like assisted living or a nursing home, visiting on a regular basis will set your mind at ease, knowing that your family member is being treated properly. It should go without saying, but the percentage of staff that are abusers are in the minority. Most paid caregivers are trustworthy, incredibly professional, and courteous. Either way, visiting with your loved one not only wards off abuse, but it also tells the person you care about their wellbeing. Keep an eye out for any of the warnings mentioned above when it comes to helping the seniors in your life.

 

Max Gottlieb is the content manager for Senior Planning. Senior Planning provides services to the aging and disabled, including free care organization, free placement services, and estate planning.

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#C2C Movement: A Public Safety Campaign

THE #C2C MOVEMENT

Citizen to Citizen Public Safety and Educational Resources Help Families & Advocates Combat Domestic Violence, Elder Abuse, Child Abuse, White Collar Crime, Fraud, Professional, Business & Facility Standards Violations. If Your Circumstance is an Emergency Call 911.


The #C2C Movement: Mission & Purpose.

#C2C’s central “action” purpose is to facilitate enhanced public safety legislation and promote Citizen to Citizen public safety reporting of fraud and abuse.

Report fraud and abuse at:
whistlefield.website

If Your Circumstance is an Emergency Dial 911.


Following in the footsteps of its predecessor, the #Metoo movement which calls out sexual harassment,
the Citizen to Citizen (#C2C) public safety reporting is a social media hashing movement that focuses on those damaged by the following
societal abuse epidemics:

• Domestic Violence,
• Elder Abuse,
• Child Abuse and
• White-collar crime (fraud),

Events that also require vigilante public safety reporting include the following:

• Heroin epidemic,
• Human Trafficking epidemic,
• Terrorism epidemic,
• Mass-shooting epidemic.

What is the common denominator in these core societal plagues? That would be the abuser, and far more often than not the abusers inherit underlying pathilogical DSM-5 “Cluster B” traits.

 

To learn more about DSM-5 “Cluster B” traits watch the videos HERE.

Additionally, the #C2C technology includes a preemptive, or as necessary, a post damage remedy consisting of educational and technical components to forewarn
potential or current victims by identifying some of the key source problems - those being maladjusted societal personality traits. Ingrained abuse traits that cause extreme hardships that often damage unsuspecting victims for the rest of their lives. Whenever possible a person needs to be preemptive. Learn the signs listed below beforehand and watch the online videos. If the damage is currently ongoing or has already occurred\ then warn others, this is the premise of Citizen to Citizen; #C2C public safety reporting.

Common abuser
traits include the
following insidious
control tactics:
• Isolation,
• Fear,
• Intimation,
• Bullying,
• Undue Influence,
• Blame-shifting,
• Gas-lighting,
• Grooming,
• Oppression,
• Guilt,
• Lying,
• Fraud,
• Minimization,
• Collusion and
• Cover-ups.

When caught red-handed abusers may even
apologies with empty words and false promises
to stop, however if they do not face significant
consequence you can be certain the abuse
will return. This is known as the cycle of abuse.

The #C2C Movement is about civic virtue, vigilance, altruism

—looking out for one another in essence. Training oneself and warning others of the pathological traits in abusive persons. Traits historically referred to as the 7 sins now scientifically labelled as Cluster B personality disorders under the DSM-5; The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders. The Cluster B abuse disorders are characterized by persons whom inflict physical or emotional and/or financial damages to others. Typically, persons they know. These persons are controlling, intimidating, manipulative, and exploitative. These behaviors are insidious meaning they happen gradually over time, escalate and often follow a repeating cycle. When these abuser’s traits rise to the pathological level the abuse escalates to dangerous levels. These persons are a public safety risk; capable of inflicting lifelong damages to friends and family whom naively trusted them. The Cluster B traits include antisocial personality disorder, borderline personality disorder, bipolar disorder, histrionic personality disorder, narcissistic personality disorder and psychopathy which has recently been categorized as variation of antisocial disorder. Some psychologists label the comorbid grouping of these various traits evident in one person as a Dark Triad; excessive pathological character traits of narcissism, machiavellianism and psychopathy all rolled into one volatile individual.

Copyright © 2018 Citizen's Public Safety Network (CPSN). Some rights reserved. Non-commercial use of text and images in which CPSN holds the copyright is permitted, with attribution, under the terms and conditions of a Creative Commons License. This website and vulnerable person task force software (VP Task Force ™) was developed by Altruesoft ® in partnership with the  Citizen's Public Safety Network in Coeur D'alene, Idaho. CPSN is dedicated to reducing the negative impact of those whom present a public safety risk by their repeated exploitation of vulnerable persons, senior citizens, those with disabilities, children, victims of domestic violence, person crimes, civil rights violations and related crime — those whom have had their civil and inalienable human rights violated. All persons whom are constitutionally protected under Federal Acts, State Statutes, Municipal Codes, Occupational License Ethics and Industry Regulations.

The Citizen's Public Safety Network is a Media Brand of the Non-profit Northwest Business Alliance est. 2004 In Coeur d'Alene, Idaho. All content is Creative Commons and Widely Distributed via Social Media and the Citizen to Citizen - #C2C Movement for Public Safety.